You can break free from relationship anxiety.

Walk alongside someone who’s been there.

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My battle with relationship OCD

My boyfriend was amazing—supportive, encouraging, caring, hardworking. We were compatible in our faith, personality, interests, and vision for life. Everyone else saw the positives in our relationship.

But the fear and doubt gnawed at me…

What if he’s not the right one for you? What if this relationship isn’t God’s will for my life? What if…?

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As the relationship progressed, those doubts grew deeper, filling me with fears that demanded an answer. Some days, I spent hours spiraling in my head. My time with him was filled with angst too. I even feared letting myself get too close—just in case.

I felt like I could never be too certain about my relationship.

Six months into this relationship, I came to a point of desperation. I was exhausted, tired of fighting the battle in my head, tired of questioning my relationship.

A desperate search online led me to the culprit—relationship OCD. It was a BIG sigh-of-relief moment. At last, I had hope that I could break free from this exhausting battle. The issue wasn’t my relationship; it was my own beliefs and thought patterns that needed to shift and grow.

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Faith-based freedom for OCD & anxiety

The Steady Heart is an outgrowth of that journey. As I researched and sought help, I realized that many of the resources for OCD and anxiety didn’t support me in my faith journey or address the deeper heart issues and misbeliefs that were fueling my anxiety.

That’s why I’ve created this space for Christian women that combines evidence-based tools and key spiritual truths for true, biblical relationship confidence. My goal is to help you experience the freedom of understanding who God is, who you are, and what He desires for your relationships.

Steady Heart values

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care

I start with empathy and compassion, providing you with a supportive environment for growth

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Commitment to truth

I hold fast to biblical principles and evidence-based mental health tools.

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clarity

A key part of relationship wholeness involves addressing the misbeliefs in our hearts and minds and getting clarity on what’s true.

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courage

Confidence in your relationship comes not from avoiding what scares you but from facing your fears and moving forward despite uncertainty

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Consistency

Overcoming relationship anxiety doesn’t happen overnight; it’s a journey requiring consistent time and effort.

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About me

Hi there! I’m Sabrina.

I’m a certified faith-based mental health coach through the Abide Network. I also have a bachelor’s degree in Bible Instruction, allowing me to intertwine faith with evidence-based tools for working through relationship anxiety.

I’m married to the love of my life, Louis, whom I met in the mountains of Colorado. We’re passionate about living for Jesus, adventuring outdoors—whether hiking, camping, climbing—, and growing meaningful community where we live in small-town Wisconsin.

Want to explore whether the Steady Heart program is the right fit for you?

Schedule a Free 30-Minute Steady Heart Strategy Session to explore your story, ask questions, and discover the right next step for your healing and relationship journey.

You don’t have to navigate anxiety and uncertainty alone.